Tom Welling has worn many hats over the years—actor, director, and even model. Best known for bringing Clark Kent to life on Smallville (2001–2011), the actor didn’t just dominate TV but also made waves on the big screen with films like The Fog (2005), Draft Day (2014), and The Choice (2016).
But before his career skyrocketed, there was Jamie White-Welling—his first wife, who was by his side during his early Hollywood days. As Tom’s star power grew, so did the cracks in their marriage, eventually leading to their split.
So, who was Jamie White-Welling, and what went wrong? Plus, a look at Tom’s kids with his current wife—let’s dive in.
Tom Met His Ex-Wife in NYC
Yes, you heard that right—Tom Welling met Jamie White-Welling in New York City back in the late 1990s, long before the entertainer became a household name.
At the time, Tom wasn’t the Hollywood star we know today. In fact, the Smallville star was still figuring things out, working construction jobs to make ends meet. His big break came in 1998, not through acting, but by sheer chance—casting director Jennifer Starr spotted him at a party in Nantucket while scouting fresh talent for a Tommy Hilfiger campaign. With a little encouragement, Tom stepped into the world of modeling, signing with Louisa Modeling Agency and working in the industry until 2000.
They Married In 2002
On July 5, 2002, Tom and Jamie White tied the knot in a beautiful ceremony on Martha’s Vineyard. It wasn’t just any wedding—it was a Smallville reunion of sorts, with Kristin Kreuk (Lana Lang) and Michael Rosenbaum (Lex Luthor) among the guests.
The night had its share of memorable moments, but one that stood out? Rosenbaum convinced the bandleader, Jerry Bennett, to let him belt out Van Morrison’s Brown-Eyed Girl. Talk about a wedding with personality!
For years, Tom and Jamie lived in Vancouver, British Columbia, where Smallville was filmed. But in March 2011, as Tom’s time as Clark Kent came to an end, the couple packed up and moved back to Los Angeles.
Little did they know, their love story was nearing its final chapter.
Tom and Jamie Separated in 2013
After more than a decade together, Tom and Jamie White’s marriage came to an end. On October 17, 2013, Jamie filed for divorce, citing irreconcilable differences.
According to legal documents, the couple had been living separate lives since December 2012. Though they never had children, Jamie sought spousal support from Tom, and the financial terms of their split were quite revealing.
For five years, Tom was required to pay 20% of his net professional income to Jamie—though with a catch. If the actor made over $5 million a year, anything beyond that amount was his to keep.
Beyond finances, they also had to divide some serious assets, including a horse farm in Florida, multiple homes in Florida and Massachusetts, and a collection of high-end cars.
Their divorce was finalized in November 2015, officially closing the chapter on their marriage.
While Jamie has remained out of the spotlight, the former celebrity spouse is known to have worked as a model for years.
Tom Welling Has Two Children With His Current Wife
Following his divorce from Jamie White, Welling found love again—this time with equestrian and Saddle Club founder Jessica Rose Lee. The couple got engaged in April 2018 and later exchanged vows on November 30, 2019, at the stunning Sunstone Vineyards & Winery in Santa Ynez, California.
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Tom and Jessica have since built a beautiful family together. They share two sons, Thomson Wylde, born in January 2019, and Rocklin Von, born in June 2021.
These days, Tom has embraced fatherhood, often sharing glimpses of his life as a devoted dad.